This week’s message is about letting go.
- Letting go of what is safe, or comfortable.
- Letting go of behaviours that get a payoff, but at a cost.
- Shedding what no longer fits to make room for the new.
A month ago, I woke up to a realization that I no longer resonate with the brand, The Miracle of Money Mentor.
And that was the day I was to do a free webinar, I had been promoting for weeks.
I asked myself, “What should I do?”
I recognized that as I had been writing the webinar content, I had created something much more spiritual in nature than I had expected when I began the promotion. I’d written the content for the webinar and delivered it only one week before, but found that by the time I completed the content, it didn’t match the page I was directing people to for the 6 week program.
In the past, I would have been terrified and my inner dialogue would have been something along the lines of:
“OMG, I am a fraud.”
“I messed up. I’m not good enough to run a business.”
“Who do I think I am?”
Yada yada yada. Blech!
But this time was different.
Yes, I was a little stressed. Yes, a bit concerned about what people might think if it wasn’t perfect. But only a little and it didn’t make me close up shop, bury my head in a bag of cookies or spend hours doing whatever I could to go numb to my discomfort. (Life Lesson in my hands: Stuffed Feelings)
Instead I trusted the intuition that has been guiding me in recent months. I delivered the webinar as I had created it and changed the sales page to coincide with the language of the webinar.
And then I dropped it all. Including the fear that I would have to start all over again without the Miracle of Money Mentor brand I have been developing for 2½ years.
I knew I needed to listen to my internal guidance that was telling me I had something more I wanted to share.
When I listened and stopped, the ideal teachers showed up right away. I began to work with some people who can help me refine and articulate my deeper purpose as a Healer with Heart (Life Purpose and Life School in my hands).
What does all this have to do with Love and Faith?
My regular “I love you” practice has given me courage to listen and act more on my intuition. To bypass what my head is saying is rational, and therefore the right thing to do. My faith is giving me trust in my inner guidance and removing any fear that I am not completely taken care of. I always have been and I always will be.
And that is true for you as well. … And the only way to know that is to live it and see what happens.
You have to love yourself enough to do what is best for you. And you can only know that by having the courage to listen to that still, small voice inside and act on what it tells you. Even when your head is saying, it makes no sense. It’s foolish, foolhardy, and dangerous.
Let go of your doubts and trust your inner wisdom.
I’m also letting go of my fears that people won’t like me if I don’t put them first. I got lots of payoffs from making other people happy.
However, taking care of other people first is not good for me. It leaves me with not enough energy and time to do what is important to me. And it feeds right into that Life Lesson of mine. When I feel emotionally violated, I numb out.
I was recently told to take care of myself first, and then take care of others with what is left over. Hmm, that’s a slightly different way of saying the same advice I’ve given to other people. But I had to let go of needing people to like me in order to take my own advice.
This letting go is part of a transformation or metamorphosis of my business which you will see developing over the next while. I see how everything I have been studying and practicing in the past 20 years is coming together into a new expression of business under the revised business name of Heart Powered Coaching.
I look forward to sharing this path of empowerment with you.
All is well.Warmest, Rosemary
October Hand Analysis/Life Purpose Reading Special Continues
Your hands hold such a deep message for you. When you have the reading to use as a guide, you are validated in who you are and you can understand yourself with both compassion and conviction to live life the way your soul intended.
Have trouble with healthy boundaries? That may be your life lesson.
Do you sell yourself short to get customers/clients? You may find out why when you have your hands analyzed.
Do you know you have something amazing to share with the world, but you’re terrified to offer it because you’re not rich, famous, or a big name? A hand analysis could help you understand why you hesitate.